Ken Deemer founder of
Shattered Men (Shat Turd Men seems more appropriate)an anti woman site and fathers rights agenda. Ken also is known as
Ken4thelamb and
Tetra55Ken says:
"Then one Halloween night when I was about 9, I went out trick or treating to get candy we seldom could get, The trick was on ME. I was kidnapped and raped that night, I remember all the vivid details to this day, I remember the man drove a 52 Ford."
and:
"I started finding web sites that were centered on abusing men. I will not even mention the name of some of these sites."
and:
"Since I was a Christian., ( I had gone to church most of my life but had stopped going when I got into the femdom web sites) I knew what I had to do. I deleted those clubs I was in. I erased the memory and the cookies and did everything but format the drive. I wanted all traces of this garbage gone. I then joined several Christian clubs on Yahoo and went to my pastor and told him everything. I started looking for more information on men that have been abused, I found Sue’s web page and have used the information in many of the posts on Deja. I then went to a Biblical counselor . The HEALING had at long last begun . and it changed my life around.
A month after this I started a club called
Shattered MEN. It is for abused MEN "
and more:
MEN are being abused even by society on a regular basis, Men are given longer prison terms for crimes women often get away with, THIS IS ABUSE
Men are often denied custody of their children when a divorce not of their making occurs, even when the mother has abused their children THIS IS ABUSE
MEN are denied the right to SEE their children even when a court so orders and they can do nothing about it but they better keep paying the support that often leaves them with very little to live on themselves. THIS IS ABUSE
Ken seems to have overlooked the fact that he was abused by a man.http://www.shatterdmen.com/Kens%20Story.htm
http://www.angelfire.com/in3/ShattterdMen/
"I am currently going through a process that shall we say for the sake of the authors argument not the ‘alienation of children’. I have my son explaining to me that mommy tells them I am very bad and does things to them, like touch their crotchy and stick my fingers up their butts. They are declared by CPS as sexualized children. Worse and sadly not from my minimal contact have they learned some age inappropriate behaviors, language is shall we say fruity, they know about many sexual acts. Worse of all these children just aged 4 and 5. My contact is thwarted by the legal system and my former spouses monumental efforts to elicit a public outcry of ‘child molester’, withholding the children from contact at the flimsiest of excuses and TRO’s. I am in fear as a result of the numerous allegations, that continue unabated. Some resulting in periods of not seeing the children for months on end. Does it end, for me no, I cannot seem to get the industry of domestic violence to realize that this is simply a case of malicious and inverterate fantasy making mommy syndrome. Not at all, we need to complicate things, and look for signs of daddy abuse, and legal revisionism, better yet psychologists and therapists who seem willing to go that extra mile, to find something. The good thing is my daughter if allowed does still come and give me a hug and say’s she loves me, my son is a little more of a challenge. So without the none existent help I need to nip this in the bud, I am sadly looking forward to a unstoppable legal parendectomy.
I have all the evidence I need to prove that something is not right about what is happening, but no platform to adjudicate.
So if I am driven by virtue of the situation from the childrens lives, am I suffering from delusions, a parendectomy or is it ‘alienation’."